Reconnecting with Disengaged Givers: The Overlooked Key to Church Growth
A Decline in Giving May be a Cry for Help
When someone stops giving, we often assume it’s a financial issue—or worse, we don’t notice at all. But at Elevate, we’ve seen another truth play out again and again:
Disengaged givers are often disconnected people.
They may feel unseen. Unheard. Overwhelmed. Hurt. Or quietly drifting. And those feelings show up in their giving long before they show up in your inbox.
What Disengagement Really Tells Us
When someone pulls back their generosity, it can be a pastoral opportunity—not just a financial concern.
Here’s what their giving change might be saying:
“I’m not sure I belong here anymore.”
“I don’t feel connected to the vision.”
“I’m going through something, and I’m not ready to talk about it.”
“I haven’t heard from anyone in a while.”
If we only look at the financial aspect, we miss the deeper need—and the opportunity for meaningful reconnection.
The Power of a Relational Follow-Up
Instead of asking, Why did they stop giving?, ask:
Who’s checking in with them?
A simple pastoral follow-up—call, visit, coffee, or message—can rebuild trust, restore vision, and reignite generosity. It communicates:
“You matter. We see you. We’re in this with you.”
Churches that cultivate this kind of care culture often see giving increase—not because they asked for more, but because people felt reconnected and valued.
From Generosity Strategy to Discipleship Culture
At Elevate Group, we help churches move from a giving strategy to a care strategy—because when people feel spiritually and relationally supported, generosity follows.
Our Elevate Discovery Day process equips churches to not just identify disengaged givers but create actionable pathways for relational re-engagement and spiritual growth.
When you prioritize care, generosity becomes more than a transaction—it becomes a sign of transformation.
Ready to Reconnect?
If you're sensing quiet disengagement among your people, now's the time to act—with pastoral care..
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